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What to Do When You Are Abused by Your Husband: A Guide for Victims of Domestic Violence

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Domestic violence is a serious problem that affects millions of people every year. In the United States, one in four women and one in seven men have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime. Domestic violence can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, and financial abuse.

If you are being abused by your husband, it is important to know that you are not alone. There are many resources available to help you get out of an abusive relationship and rebuild your life. This article will provide you with information on the different types of abuse, the signs and symptoms of abuse, and the steps you can take to get help.

Domestic violence can take many forms, including:

What To Do When You are Abused by Your Husband: A Biblical Perspective

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Physical abuse is any type of physical harm, such as hitting, punching, kicking, choking, or burning.
Emotional abuse is any type of verbal or emotional abuse, such as name-calling, belittling, or threatening.
Sexual abuse is any type of unwanted sexual contact, such as rape, sexual assault, or forced prostitution.
Financial abuse is any type of financial control, such as stealing money, preventing you from accessing your own money, or forcing you to take out loans in your name.

The signs and symptoms of abuse can vary depending on the type of abuse. However, some common signs and symptoms include:

Physical injuries, such as bruises, cuts, or burns
Emotional distress, such as anxiety, depression, or PTSD
Low self-esteem
Isolation from friends and family
Fear of your partner
Feeling like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner
Financial problems

If you are being abused by your husband, it is important to take action to protect yourself and your children. The first step is to create a safety plan. A safety plan is a set of steps that you can take to stay safe in the event of an abusive incident. Your safety plan should include:

A list of safe places to go, such as a friend's house, a family member's house, or a domestic violence shelter
A list of people who can help you, such as a friend, a family member, a therapist, or a domestic violence advocate
A plan for how to get out of the house quickly and safely
A plan for what to do if your partner becomes violent

Once you have created a safety plan, you need to take steps to get help. There are many resources available to help you get out of an abusive relationship, including:

Domestic violence hotlines
Domestic violence shelters
Legal aid organizations
Counseling services
Support groups

If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

Getting out of an abusive relationship can be difficult, but it is possible. Here are some tips for getting out of an abusive relationship:

Tell someone you trust, such as a friend, a family member, a therapist, or a domestic violence advocate.
Make a safety plan.
Gather important documents, such as your birth certificate, social security card, and passport.
Find a safe place to go.
Contact a domestic violence hotline or shelter.
Get legal help.
Consider counseling.
Join a support group.

Rebuilding Your Life After Abuse

Rebuilding your life after abuse can be a long and difficult process, but it is possible. Here are some tips for rebuilding your life after abuse: